I love my blog and reviewing movies, coupled with talking to all of you fabulous people. But I’ve been thinking a lot lately about my approach to it. My main thought was that I need to change it. My usual approach is that I plan the movies I will review and then act on them. But I’ve found that I’ve been putting way too much pressure on myself in this regard. I have now decided that I will watch movies and then decide whether or not to write about them. I believe this will be most beneficial for me and take the edge off. I don’t know why I put so much pressure on myself, but I’m taking it off now to become more relaxed with what I do. To reiterate, I love blogging and reviewing movies( I can’t picture life without it), but I’ll be using this approach to make me feel better. Going with the flow is that way to go. So don’t worry about me, I’ll be fine with this new method. What do you think of my new approach?
A Different Approach to Reviewing
23 Sunday Apr 2017
Posted in Announcements
vinnieh 
I think it’s a good idea. You don’t want to wear yourself out to the point where you don’t enjoy blogging and see it as a chore.
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You know what, you took the words right out of my mouth Mario. Taking it easy is the way for me.
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Well said Mario
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Thank you
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Ohbugger that, I love making plans but then I feel shit because I failed. So no, watch what you enjoy and in your own time.. But please if u watch something really awful please post so I won’t watch it.. Unfortunately i love turds so that probably means I will watch it just because 😆 I give u Troll 2 or Frankenhooker, damn they were bad but I so enjoyed it 😆
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I do like having order, but I feel I need to be spontaneous. I promise if I watch something terrible, I’ll review it just for you.
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Well I love order and plans.. I got 5 notebooks of plans but then I just fuck em and do what feels better. Somewhere these notebooks are taunting me in my bottom drawer of notebook hell. 😆
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I too have notebooks. And while I will still use one, I’m going to do what feels better. Just like you said.
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Just go with the cinematic flow, V. You have been very industrious, taking on the catalogues of De Palma, Streep, and others. Maybe take a more random approach in future?
Best wishes, Pete.
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Random is what I’m going for Pete. Sometimes I put too much pressure on myself when I really shouldn’t. It’s now going to change as I go with the cinematic flow.
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That’s exactly what I do. I watch substantially more movies than I review on my side. I’ll only review a movie if it inspires me to write. So, while I may watch some excellent movies, I don’t always feel like writing about them. I only write posts when the mood strikes. Hope that helps.
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I’m taking a leaf out of your book then. When the mood strikes is going to be my motto.
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Most important – have fun!
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That’s what I’m doing. Not that I haven’t been having fun, but it’s time for a switch up.
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I perfectly understand.
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You’re a real good friend.
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Thanks so much Vinnie. You’ve made my day.
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All part of my job description.
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😀
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It’s pretty much how I do it myself. Some movies are easier to review than others. And then there are certain movies that I don’t even know where to start. So it’s never good to put pressure on yourself. I always enjoy reading your reviews, and whatever approach you are going to take, I will continue reading your posts regardless 😊
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You’re a really great blogging buddy. I’ve found that just going with the flow will be great for me. My reviews will still be like they are now, I’m just going to be a bit more free about it.
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I think that’s the wisest approach to take to benefit your mentality and I do understand where you’re coming from. I personally watch a few movies when in want to review a movie, I take notes and along the way I think about how passionate and connected i feel with a particular one to have enough substance to write about it. As I don’t blog as regularly as some because i find it too overwhelming to do so, but that’s just me.
I think it’s ideal for me mentally too so I enjoy watching other movies in my spare I me without thinking ‘oh here’s another movie I can post about , giving a little more space to fully immerse into the enjoyment. So do what you feel is best.😊
In the words of Dr Seuss.. ” Those who matter won’t mind and those who mind won’t matter.
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You got the right idea, I’m definitely going to do something like you.
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Sounds like a good plan, Vinnie. I’m trying to reconsider my approach recently too, but haven’t really hit on a new method yet, so I know what it’s like. But I’m glad you’ve found yours!
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I just thought it would be better and stop my constant pressure that I put on myself. You’ll find your method, of that I’m sure.
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Planning can be a good thing, but you shouldn’t plan every single detail of your blog. Sometimes you just gotta wing it.
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That’s what I’m learning. Sometimes I just need to let things go a certain way.
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Yup – I’m in full agreement that going with the flow is always best. No pressure and just do what you feel like doing!
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I’m slowly learning that. I’m my own worst enemy sometimes.
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Hi just saying this, how about adding TV series old new etc, if you enjoy those as well. William is a big series watcher. I don’t think you should change your blog too much, just make it work for you as you have a huge following. Ivan.
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Oh I’m not overly changing it. I’m just not pressuring myself to review everything I see. TV will probably feature.
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Excellent. We are a huge TV series household. Have a great day. Ivan
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My day is going fine now.
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It sounds like a good idea, reviewing should never feel like its pressured, and blogging must always be fun to do – otherwise there isn’t much point really.
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You said it perfectly Paul. This change is for the best, I simply can’t review everything I see.
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That’s right. I’m lucky, I review on other sites as well now, so get advance copes and go to screenings sometimes ect, but I can’t do everything I get asked to review and cover. Pacing yourself and striking a nice balance that works for you is essential.
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That’s it, pacing is what I need.
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With this new way, you will certainly enjoy what you do! 🙂
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I mean, I enjoy blogging immensely, but I’m way to critical and sometimes really just need to slow down.
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That known, go with your perspectives and instincts.. 🙂
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I will do just that.
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Way Better!
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I go with the flow when it comes to everything, so I totally get where you’re coming from. You do what you do. We’re just along for the ride. 😃
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I’m so grateful to your support. Slowing down is what I need to do. I’m often way to hard on myself.
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Not necessarily slowing down, but certainly taking things as they come, and reserving the right to change directions whenever need be. 😃
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That’s what I meant. I love blogging, and me being a bit more spontaneous and less ordered is going to be helpful.
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👍🏻
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And I’ve also got my other blog going well, so thinks are shaping up nicely.
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Right on. 😃
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It’s a good feeling.
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That’s a great approach Vin, it’s one I try to stick to myself – as you say it takes the edge off and ultimately makes blogging more enjoyable rather than a task!
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The one thing I’d hate is for it to become a task, which is why I’m implementing this. Reviewing is the best and I am learning to take it easy on myself.
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I never force myself to write anything. It’s just not fun. So I don’t actually review movies unless I really have something to say and the words just come easily and I don’t have to think too hard what to write. I admire bloggers who review every single film they see but some movies are simply not worth the time and energy to write about them
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That’s the attitude I’m adopting. Sometimes I can be very hard on myself and push myself too much, now I’m taking it easy. The last thing I want is blogging to be a chore. It is the best after all.
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Yes, blogging should always be fun and no pressure 😊
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I’ve learned that, it’s back to the fun.
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A fantastic idea 💡..
You need to enjoy 😊 what you are doing…
go for it..
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Everytime vinnieh
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Hope you enjoy my other blog.
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I will check it out in a little bit..
promise
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You’re a star.
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I love it 😍 vinnieh.
I only watch the first two ..
But it’s hilariously amusing..
And I find it quite fascinating to hear the answers from everyone
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Thanks for looking at it. Ive also written poetry and naughty stories on there.
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I will continue to explore.. and try to give you my feedback..
You know me.. that’s up my avenue…
I love ❤️ anything to do with being naughty
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Well I hope it’s pleasurable enough for you.
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I’m sure it will be
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This is a good idea and if it makes you feel less stressed, then go for it.
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That’s the plan.
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I think this is a good idea Vinnie. It’s so easy to lose sight of the fact that we are in control of blogs and not the other way around.😃
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Happy you understand. As I’ve said, I can be my own worst enemy and really be hard on myself. But that’s changing as I’m taking it easy and going with the flow.
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I’ve been going through the same thing and have taken the same approach. I watch something and if it moves me to write then I do. If not, so be it. Far less stressful as I’m not pressuring myself to come up with a review. Hope it works for you, too.
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Happy to know it’s working for you. I’ve been thinking a lot about it lately and have decided it was time to change approach.
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I think it sounds like the perfect plan! You have to watch movies because you want to and not put pressure on yourself. You might end up not liking it as much.
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I’m adopting this mindset for that very reason. I adore what I do and don’t want anything to ruin that.
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Very smart of you.
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It’s doing good so far.
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I support this mind set, especially since I tend to do the same thing.
You should always aim to write about things that you want to write about rather than everything you watch.
Of course, your viewing habits will likely be heavily based on what you want to write about, but if it feels like “work” or “stressful” then you should take a step back and think “Do I really HAVE to write about THIS?”
Looking forward to seeing how this new approach works out for you Vinnie. Best of luck!
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Thanks for your beneficial support. I’m certain this new approach will be helpful, a little switch up never hurt anything.
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🙂
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Thanks Fraggle, that’s the mindset I’m adopting right now.
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Oh man, I know pressure on self in blogging. But as you may have seen today, I too have made some changes! And no schedule! Woot!
Good luck on your new approach!
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Thanks for the tips. Will check your blog soon, been a bit busy the last day or so. A catch up is in order.
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Also, for every movie you don’t write about, it frees up more time to write smut on your other blog! 🙂
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You read my mind.
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Good method to live by mate! 🙂
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I’m finding it will be very good for me.
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Go with what works best. We’ll be here as ever.
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It’s going well so far, paying off already.
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Another thought is to keep them on your watchlist on IMDB or other location but don’t write on them unless you want to. Later on you may recall a film and go back and review because it strikes your fancy.
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Now that’s a pretty swell idea. Thanks for that incentive.
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Vinnieh, Your new approach makes so much sense. It’s how I’ve always done it. Not everything you watch inspires an actual review that you may want to post.
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It’s an approach that’s really paying dividends.
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I reviewed every movie I saw in cinemas last year. It was a good discipline to force me to not just write reviews of films I really loved but I am not repeating that rule so far for this year. In the end we’re doing this because it gives us joy. Go with what makes you happy.
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My new approach is paying off and helping. Glad I decided to use it.
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Yay!
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I love blogging so much. I just needed to not put pressure on myself.
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It’s interesting how something that starts off as a hobby or passion can quickly become burdensome if we don’t carefully watch the unecessary pressures we place on ourselves.
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You’re very right there. Thankfully, my new approach is paying off well.
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Great idea! 🙂
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Thank you for checking my blog. Just looking at yours now.
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